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My Spanish course contains 45 lessons with 5 videos and 5 mp3s each, plus online lessons, kids’ lessons, articles, an ebook and a members-only forum where you can post me all your Spanish language questions.

So, when do you use ‘buenas tardes’ and ‘buenas noches’?

Unlike in English, these two Spanish greetings have more to do with meals and the sunset than with the actual time of day.

Therefore, ‘buenas tardes’ is usually said after lunch, which is often from 2.00 pm. ‘Buenas noches’, especially in the summer, is usually said after 9.00 pm. In winter, many people say ‘buenas tardes’ at least until 8.00 pm, even if it’s dark; and many only use ‘buenas noches’ after dinner, which tends to be from 9.00 pm.

When using ‘buenas noches’, remember that it’s not only a farewell, but also a greeting. You can use it both when you meet someone and when you leave.

As you can see, there is no golden rule as to when to use these Spanish greetings. The important point is that they’re vague and flexible. Best of all, there’s an easy way out if you’re unsure as to which one to use: you can simply say ‘buenas’.

If you want to practice saying these and other Spanish greetings, you can hear them said by native speakers in the Lessons 2, 3 and 4 of my Spanish course. Here are two samples:

Lesson 2 dialog and flashcards

Mecano was a highly successful pop group from Spain. Their career expanded between 1981 and 1992. The lead singer was Ana Torroja, and the other two members were brothers Nacho and José María Cano.

Apart from making a large number of memorable movies, Penelope Cruz has also appeared in other music videos, mainly Cosas que contar by Eduardo Cruz in 2007, El patio by Nacho Cano in 1994 and El waltz de los locos by Nacho Cano in 1995.

The song La fuerza del destino in included in the album Descanso dominical.

A quick search for terms such as “Spanish gender rules” gives you a frightening number of sites stating, for instance, that “nouns ending in ‘e’ and nouns ending in a consonant are usually masculine”. The problem with these so-called rules is that there are simply thousands of Spanish feminine nouns ending in ‘e’ or a consonant.

My dilemma as a Spanish teacher is that I want to help my students learn the language as fast as possible at the same time as I steer them away from making basic mistakes. For that reason I prefer to ignore gender rules with a substantial number of exceptions, which leaves only three to follow.

So, in my opinion, these are the only gender rules consistent enough to be considered reliable:

1. Most Spanish nouns ending in ‘o’ as masculine.
2. Most Spanish nouns ending in ‘a’ are feminine.
3. Spanish nouns ending in ‘dad’, ‘tad’, ‘tud’, ‘ción’ ‘sión’, ‘gión’, ‘triz’ and ‘umbre’ are feminine.

Rule 3 is a golden rule, but in rules 1 and 2 (the rules that apply to the great majority of Spanish nouns) the word to watch out for is ‘most’. That’s why it’s good practice to learn all new nouns with their article, rather than on their own.

In other posts we’ll see a longer list of exceptions to these two rules, but here are some. As you can see, many are everyday words:

Briefly: the gender of nouns ending in ‘o’ and ‘a’ can be guessed in the great majority of cases, but the exceptions are often commonly used nouns. Other gender rules, except for Rule 3 above and that applying to nouns of Greek origin, are not reliable enough.

About me and my Spanish course

I have taught Spanish for over fifteen years and have two Spanish learning publications to my name. My latest work is the Spanish for beginners course at Spanish Bookworld.

This course come with dozens of online lessons for both adults and children, downloadable mp3s and videocasts, interactive ebooks, language learning articles and an exclusive forum where you can ask me your language questions.

Víctor Manuel is one of the most popular Spanish singer-songwriters of all times. Born in 1947 in Asturias, Spain, he has composed and sang dozens of songs that have now become classics throughout the Spanish-speaking world.

Sólo pienso en ti dates back to 1979 and is considered by many to be his masterpiece. This powerful song describes the love between two mentally disabled people, their struggle, sadness and happiness.

If you want to get this song, you can find it here.